If You Have to Fight to Fit its the Wrong Fit

We are always looking for affirmation that others actually want to be around us, to feel a sense of belonging and community. If it fits, like your tribe, then good, that is beneficial to your journey. However, if its a fight to fit then it is counterproductive to your walk towards a more graceful life…

The awkwardness of a poor fit can be pretty clear, but we sometimes try to play through the pain anyways. Have you ever worn a pair of shoes simply because they were gorgeous even if they didn’t fit right? Blister city. Apply this metaphor to the relationships in your life. If it feels as though a relationship is a constant struggle and more of a drain than a fountain then it might just be the wrong fit. Remove yourself from these relationships. If you start to feel lonely and isolated like you don’t fit anymore; there are thousands of woo-woo gurus out there to validate and reassure your insecurities. And as you let go of the fight to fit you will open up room for newer, more productive, authentic relationships in your life. Your tribe will naturally gravitate towards you and it definitely won’t be a fight to fit.